Can
our nephew really be that old?! Family and friends have come to celebrate
his 40th from as far afield as Paris, Amsterdam, Glasgow, the Isle of
Mann . . . and Middlestown, 2 miles down the road (that was us).
It's
good to get together again and the tales of what people are up to are
fascinating. One relative, having gone through fairly stressful spells
as a detective with the police and a teacher in a secondary school (a
school which wasn't without its problems) has been taking time off to
spend the summer sailing a 32 foot yacht down the west coast of Scotland.
It's obvious to me that this should be his next career move. Being the
skipper of yacht brings plenty of problems, but dealing with sea and sky,
tempests and tides, isn't the same as being caught between police and
public, or steering a course between the demands of the headmaster and
needs of your pupils.
Smoke-screen
The
buffet is excellent but, like any party, I find the secondary smoke so
bad that I give up talking and just listen (I've had a sore throat this
week anyway). The teachers we speak to, I notice, can make their voices
carry, even though they talk in a relaxed way. When I speak,
even if I belt out my words raspingly, the sound seems to stop as soon
as it gets out of my mouth and melt in the smoky, noisy atmosphere of
the party.
As the disco ups a gear, I find even listening impossible. By the end
of the night, when I'm catching up with the projects that a creative relative
has been up to, I'm having to lean down and hold my ear a couple of inches
from her mouth so that I can hear what she's telling me.
Tough business, partying! 
Richard Bell, richard@willowisland.co.uk
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